Best Friday Ever

Good Friday Service 2011

April 22, 2011

Introduction

Do people see Jesus? Is the gospel preached? Does it speak to the broken hearted? Does it build up the church? Milk – Meat – Manna Preach for a decision

We like Fridays.  At least most of us do.

I found out from an eighth grade girl from Anaheim Hills named Rebecca Black what “Fridays” are all about.

PlayFriday” video clip
What’s frightening is that this video came out a month ago, and now have over 100 MILLION hits.
I think I like Darth Vader’s version better:
PlayChad Vader Friday” clip.

We’re here this afternoon to think about one Friday in particular…

Friday

We call it “Good Friday”

Was it really a Friday that Jesus died on?

I would be dishonest if I didn’t let you know that there is plenty of disagreement among scholars as to what day of the week Jesus actually died on.

The more traditional view is that Jesus died on Friday afternoon, around 3:00pm.
There are some who say that Jesus died on Thursday afternoon, not Friday.
The discussion comes from what Jesus said:
(Mt 12:40 NKJV) For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so will the Son of Man be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.

The Thursday folks say you can’t get a literal three days and three nights with Jesus dying on Friday and rising on Sunday.

The Friday folks say that in Jewish culture, that any partial day counts as a full day, and that since the change of days takes place around 6pm, that Jesus technically was dead on Friday, Saturday, and early Sunday, making it three days.

What do I think?

I’m not going to argue with you one way or another.  Both views have support and frankly I don’t think it’s worth arguing over.

There is one day of the week are sure of.  Jesus rose from the dead on Sunday.

And since our western culture sets aside Friday as “Good Friday”, forgive me if I use the word “Friday” to talk about the day that Jesus died.

To be totally honest, there are also different ways of choosing which day we celebrate the resurrection as well.

Do we pick a date that’s related to the Passover?

Do we pick a date that falls on a Sunday (the first day of the week)?

These kinds of issues have resulted in debates over which day is best to celebrate the resurrection.
I personally like the fact that we live in a society that holds every Sunday as a special day, and it’s because of the resurrection.
To be honest, there are different ways of calculating what day to celebrate Easter on as well.
Jesus’ death is tied to the Passover, which is the 14th of Nisan in the Jewish calendar.  The Jewish calendar is a lunar calendar, and that makes for crazy matchups with our western calendar.

Today, Friday is the 18th of Nisan, four days after the Jewish Passover which is on the 14th of Nisan.

Jesus resurrection is tied to being on the first day of the week, Sunday, and three days after the Passover does not always fall on a Sunday.

So, do you celebrate in connection with the 14th of Nisan, or do you try to connect the resurrection with Sunday.

In Western society, Sunday is typically a “day off”, part of the weekend, specifically as a result of Jesus’ resurrection.

These kinds of issues, as well as whether or not to tie the Resurrection to a Jewish calendar, has resulted in all sorts of ways to pick a date to celebrate Easter.

Often the Eastern Orthodox churches celebrate on a different day than the Western churches do.  This year, both sets of churches celebrate on April 24.

My point?

Don’t get too caught up in the arguments about dates.

Focus on what Jesus did on the cross.  Focus on the fact that He rose from the dead.

It would be okay to celebrate every day, not just once a year.

Keep in mind it wasn’t just a “Good Friday”, but the “Best” Friday.  Ever.

The Old Testament lays out pictures, patterns, and principles that would take place on that Friday.

The picture of Abraham and Isaac

(Ge 22:1–14 NKJV) —1 Now it came to pass after these things that God tested Abraham, and said to him, “Abraham!” And he said, “Here I am.” 2 Then He said, “Take now your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I shall tell you.” 3 So Abraham rose early in the morning and saddled his donkey, and took two of his young men with him, and Isaac his son; and he split the wood for the burnt offering, and arose and went to the place of which God had told him. 4 Then on the third day Abraham lifted his eyes and saw the place afar off. 5 And Abraham said to his young men, “Stay here with the donkey; the lad and I will go yonder and worship, and we will come back to you.” 6 So Abraham took the wood of the burnt offering and laid it on Isaac his son; and he took the fire in his hand, and a knife, and the two of them went together. 7 But Isaac spoke to Abraham his father and said, “My father!” And he said, “Here I am, my son.” Then he said, “Look, the fire and the wood, but where is the lamb for a burnt offering?” 8 And Abraham said, “My son, God will provide for Himself the lamb for a burnt offering.” So the two of them went together. 9 Then they came to the place of which God had told him. And Abraham built an altar there and placed the wood in order; and he bound Isaac his son and laid him on the altar, upon the wood. 10 And Abraham stretched out his hand and took the knife to slay his son. 11 But the Angel of the Lord called to him from heaven and said, “Abraham, Abraham!” So he said, “Here I am.” 12 And He said, “Do not lay your hand on the lad, or do anything to him; for now I know that you fear God, since you have not withheld your son, your only son, from Me.” 13 Then Abraham lifted his eyes and looked, and there behind him was a ram caught in a thicket by its horns. So Abraham went and took the ram, and offered it up for a burnt offering instead of his son. 14 And Abraham called the name of the place, The-Lord-Will-Provide; as it is said to this day, “In the Mount of the Lord it shall be provided.”

This is such a strange, bizarre story.  It is not about human sacrifice, but about painting a picture.  Things like…

It happens in the land of “Moriah”.  Jerusalem is on Mount Moriah.
A father and his “only son”, a sacrifice.
The son carrying the “wood”.
The son willingly laying down to be sacrificed.
Abraham was confident that God would provide a lamb (vs. 8)
Some see this phrase as God Himself being the Lamb.
The LORD will provide. We could never pay for our sins.  God would.     
In a sense, this was a picture being painted of “Good Friday”.

The pattern of the Passover Lamb

In order for the Israelites to finally be set free from their bondage in Egypt, another bizarre story emerges.

Each family is to take an innocent unblemished lamb and slaughter it.  The blood is to be sprinkled on the doorposts of the house.  When the Angel of Death came near, he would “pass over” the houses that had the lamb’s blood.  For those houses without lamb’s blood, the firstborn would die.

Why lamb’s blood?  Why not just paint a sign? Send an email?

It was meant to be a pattern that was copied year after year:

(Ex 12:12–14 NKJV) —12 ‘For I will pass through the land of Egypt on that night, and will strike all the firstborn in the land of Egypt, both man and beast; and against all the gods of Egypt I will execute judgment: I am the Lord. 13 Now the blood shall be a sign for you on the houses where you are. And when I see the blood, I will pass over you; and the plague shall not be on you to destroy you when I strike the land of Egypt. 14 ‘So this day shall be to you a memorial; and you shall keep it as a feast to the Lord throughout your generations. You shall keep it as a feast by an everlasting ordinance.

God wanted the Israelites to remember this odd, bizarre incident.  He wanted them repeating it year after year.

One day Jesus showed up while John the Baptist was dunking people in the Jordan River.

(Jn 1:29 NKJV) The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him, and said, “Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!

Three years later Jesus would be hanging on a cross, dying during the annual celebration of the Passover.
His blood, sprinkled on our hearts through faith, brings us deliverance from our sins.

The principles of sacrifice

The Law of Moses lays out the concept that an animal could lay down its life for you.

(Le 4:27–29 NKJV) —27 ‘If anyone of the common people sins unintentionally by doing something against any of the commandments of the Lord in anything which ought not to be done, and is guilty, 28 or if his sin which he has committed comes to his knowledge, then he shall bring as his offering a kid of the goats, a female without blemish, for his sin which he has committed. 29 And he shall lay his hand on the head of the sin offering, and kill the sin offering at the place of the burnt offering.

The picture is that the sinner is putting his own sins on the animal as he lays his hands on it.

The animal dies in substitution for the sinner.

But take note here – the “sin offering” was only for those who committed sins “unintentionally”.  It was only when you forgot to do something, or when you accidentally did something.

I’ve always struggled with this.  Only the unintentional sins could be covered with sacrifice?
If you intentionally, willfully disobeyed God, there was no sacrifice.
(Nu 15:30–31 NLT) —30 “But those who brazenly violate the Lord’s will, whether native-born Israelites or foreigners, have blasphemed the Lord, and they must be cut off from the community.31 Since they have treated the Lord’s word with contempt and deliberately disobeyed his command, they must be completely cut off and suffer the punishment for their guilt.”
I don’t know about you, but a fair amount of the sin that I commit is fairly “brazen” and intentional.  I know what I’m doing is wrong, and I go and do it anyway.

Is there a remedy for me?

On one of his missionary journeys, Paul was at the synagogue in Antioch of Pisidia.  On the Sabbath day Paul gave a short message to the Jews in the synagogue.  Paul talked about the prophetic Scriptures that spoke of a Messiah coming from the seed of David.  He talked about how Jesus came to fulfill these prophecies by both dying and being raised from the dead.  At the end of his message, Paul said,

(Ac 13:38–39 NKJV) —38 Therefore let it be known to you, brethren, that through this Man is preached to you the forgiveness of sins; 39 and by Him everyone who believes is justified from all things from which you could not be justified by the law of Moses.

The Law of Moses hinted at forgiveness through sacrifice, but it could only go so far. There seems to be no forgiveness for intentional sins.
Jesus’ death on the cross went beyond what the Law of Moses could provide.
His death pays for all our sins.

Friday – Forgiveness

“Good Friday” is in fact the “Best Friday Ever” because Jesus has paid the price for our forgiveness.

He took us farther than the Law of Moses could ever take us.

With one sacrifice, He has paid for all our sins.

Isaiah spoke of this future sacrifice:

(Is 53:5–6 NKJV) —5 But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. 6 All we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way; And the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.

We saw last Sunday how Jesus accomplished this on the cross.  Just before He died, He said the words “It is finished”.

The Greek word used in the text can be used for a debt that’s been paid in full.

Paul wrote,

(2 Co 5:21 NKJV) For He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.

We find forgiveness when we confess our sins to God.  John wrote,

(1 Jn 1:9 NKJV) If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Forgiveness in the Key of F

By Chaplain Jim Sands

Feeling footloose and frisky, a feather-brained fellow forced his father to fork over his farthings. Fast he flew to foreign fields and frittered his family’s fortune, feasting fabulously with floozies and faithless friends. Flooded with flattery he financed a full-fledged fling of “funny foam” and fast food.

Fleeced by his fellows in folly, facing famine, and feeling faintly fuzzy, he found himself a feed-flinger in a foreign filthy farmyard. Frail, fragile, and fairly famished, he fain would have filled his frame with foraged food from the fodder fragments.

“Fooey,” he figured, “my father’s flunkies fare far fancier,” the frazzled fugitive fumed feverishly, facing the facts. Finally, frustrated from failure and filled with foreboding (but following his feelings) he fled from the foreign filthy farmyard.

Faraway, the father saw a fretful familiar form in the field and flew to find him with flying forearms, fell on his neck and fervently kissed him. Falling at his father’s feet, the fugitive floundered forlornly, “Father, I have flunked and fruitlessly forfeited family favor.”

So, the faithful Father, forbidding and forestalling further flinching, frantically flagged the flunkies to fetch forth the finest fatling and fix a feast.

The fugitive’s fault-finding brother was in a fertile field fixing fences while father and fugitive were feeling festive. The foreman felt fantastic as he flashed the fortunate news of a familiar family face that had forsaken fatal foolishness.

Forty-four feet from the farmhouse the fault-finder found a farmhand fixing a fatling. Feeling fallow and frowning, he found father and ‘fessed, “Floozies and foam from frittered family funds and you fix a feast following the fugitive’s folderol”? The fault-finder’s fury flashed but fussing was futile.

The frugal fault-finder felt it was fitting to feel “favored” for his faithfulness and fidelity to family, father, and farm. In foolhardy fashion, he faulted the father for failing to furnish a fatling and feast for his friends. His folly was not in feeling fit for feast and fatling for friends; rather his flaw was in his feeling about the fairness of the festival for the found fugitive.

His fundamental fallacy was a fixation on favoritism, not forgiveness. Any focus on feeling “favored” will fester and friction will force the frayed facade to fall. Frankly, the father felt the frigid fault-finder’s frugality of forgiveness was formidable and frightful. But the father’s former faithful fortitude and fearless forbearance to forgive both fugitive and fault-finder flourishes.

The farsighted father figured, “Such fidelity is fine, but what forbids fervent festivity for the fugitive that is found? Unfurl the flags with flaring, let fun and frolic freely flow. Former failure is forgotten, folly is forsaken. Forgiveness forms the foundation for future fortune.”

Friday – Forgiveness – Father

Forgiveness is important not just to relieve us from a sense of guilt, but because it is what restores our relationship with God the Father.

Matthew records what happened in the Temple after Jesus breathed His last breath:

(Mt 27:50–51a NKJV) —50 And Jesus cried out again with a loud voice, and yielded up His spirit. 51 Then, behold, the veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom…

The veil of the temple was a curtain that divided the “holy place” from the “holy of holies”.  Every day priests went into the “holy place” to offer prayers, burn incense, and light the lamps.  But the “holy of holies” was reserved as a place symbolizing the very throne room of God.  Only the high priest could go in, and only once a year.  The tearing of the veil was a visual picture that the way had been made into God’s presence.
Play “Passion” clip. (you won’t have to understand Aramaic to understand)
Our sin is a very real problem.  It is the thing that keeps us from being able to know God and fellowship with God.
When Jesus died and paid for our sins, the problem was removed.  The curtain was pulled back.

Jesus said,

(Jn 14:1–3 NKJV) —1 “Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. 2 In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.

Everything He did was so that you and I could be restored to the Father.
Everything was so you and I could spend eternity in heaven with God.
That makes this is a Good Friday.  In fact, it’s the Best Friday Ever.
 

Invitation

Communion

The Greek word for “communion” and “fellowship” are the same word, koinonia.  It means to share something in common.

Our human “fellowship” is based on the fact that we all have the same thing in common – we all know and follow Jesus Christ.